" I love, because my love is not dependent on the object of love. My love is dependent on my state of being. So whether the other person changes, becomes different, friend turns into a foe, does not matter, because my love was never dependent on the other person. My love is my state of being. I simply love." ~ Osho
I am an orgasmic breath & intimacy coach and speaker working mainly with busy professionals to support them in their self mastery and harness their life force and sexual energy for healing, bliss and pleasure. Brought up in a conservative Chinese family, I struggled a lot with my sexuality and who I am as a woman. In fact, I used to struggle a lot with my life and has low self esteem and play small in my life. Never in my wildest dream would I imagine that the invisible and awkward girl will rise up to become a coach and speaker one day. To think that public speaking used to be my biggest fear.
I have always been spiritual but was never happy. I hit a low point in my life in my mid 30s and that got me on my inner work journey. I started to remove the layers and layers of armour that I had stored in my heart and my body with breathwork, coaching, bodywork and tantra. With each layer of armour that I released, I find more joy and bliss and was able to fully embrace my sexual energy and the healthy feminine and masculine side of me.
I have been coaching and doing breathwork therapy since 2009 and it was only in 2015 that I was divinely guided to incorporate tantra to support others. To be honest, I resisted this for a while as I was fearful of what society will judge me if I would to openly talk about sexual energy, intimacy, sex etc. However, I have learned to trust and follow my true purpose in life. Intimacy is a topic that I am deeply passionate with and I hope and support each of you to unlearn and relearn about who you are as a sexual being and start to live an effortless, joyful and purposeful life.
One of my tantra teacher, Andrew Barnes shared that a healthy sexual esteem will lead to a healthy self esteem and I could not agree more with what he said. My intention of engaging in this work is to support men as well as women to become more self aware, to have a healthy sexual esteem and self esteem and most importantly, to learn to harness the creative sexual energy to other areas of our life.
Other than tantra, I am also a certified coach and trained in a releasing technique using the power of the breath to let go of trauma, tension and limiting belief. In addition, I am also a NLP practitioner, an enneagram coach and laughter yoga leader, Different people respond to different modalities at different stages of our life journey and I tune in to see what my clients need. I also deliver training on intimacy, stress management, emotional resilience and personal effectiveness training at corporate and speaks at events.
My clients are international and I choose to work only with professionals who are committed to learn and grow. I am currently based in Singapore and are available for sessions or training out of Singapore too. To contact me, write to firstname.lastname@example.org.