Not able to last as long as one wishes during sex is one common challenge faced by men. Premature ejaculation is uncontrolled ejaculation either before or shortly after sexual penetration. It happens with minimal sexual stimulation and before the person wishes. With this definition, almost every man at some point in his life might have experience premature ejaculation. Lifelong premature ejaculation means that the problem has always existed since puberty. Acquired premature ejaculation is for men who started suffering from premature ejaculation at some point later in his life. It does causes distress, anxiety and affect one's self esteem and lead to dissatisfied sex life.
So what cause premature ejaculation? I would say for most people, it is more psychological than physical. Performance anxiety, masturbate too frequently and quickly, relationship challenges, sex trauma and stress could be some of the cause. I usually work with clients to identify the root cause which for many, could be the first sexual experience or some childhood issue.
Medically doctor will say that there is no cure for premature ejaculation and will prescribe anti depressant pills or spray and cream as treatment. I am personally against the use of medicine or spray/cream as they are really meant to desensitise and numb a person, and every medicine will have their side effect. There are many other natural solutions that can help a man suffering from premature ejaculation and tantra is one of them.
I have worked with many clients who are suffering from premature ejaculation with positive results, usually within 2 to 4 sessions. This is possible as I am using a combination of breath therapy, trauma release, massage and counselling to create the change. Having said that, this is not a quick fix solution but requires one to be commitment and do the homework as prescribed and follow up for sessions. Those clients who faithfully follow through the sessions are able to see themselves lasting from less than 5 minutes to more than half an hour. There is hope for any man who are suffering from premature ejaculation.